Love is Built On Friendship

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I am an artist, musician, composer, performer, deejay, designer. I interpret the world around me through a prism of colors - a full range of colors from vivid colors to subtle hues and tints. Black and White and shades of gray. Sensitive, thoughtful, playfully rambunctious, funny, and striving for integrity and authenticity in everything I do. Love people and cultures. Empathetic and compassionate are two major qualities that describe who I am. Definitely not A type personality. More laid back, letting the chips fall where they may (though that can be a fault too, sad to say). As for Music - I appreciate it all, as long as it's touches the soul. Genres I'm big on - Soulful House, Afro-beat, EDM, Nu-Disco, Afro-cuban, Samba, Bossa Nova, Jazz, Lounge, Dancehall/Reggae and the list goes on. I have deep faith but I don't wear my christianity on my sleeve like a badge of superiority to lord over everyone. We are all at different points on our spiritual walk/path/journey/quest, I get it. I don't function too well around a patchwork of insincerity, and an overload of selfishness and materialistic endeavors, that's not saying i despise the finer things in life, nothing could be further from the truth - no doubt, a nice glass of wine, an exquisitely designed dress, pair of shoes, cars, forward thinking architecture etc. I find all lovely. I just don't make these things the central focus of my life. Social environment - I am just as comfortable in the company of intellectuals in suits, and the well-educated, as I am with people of humble upbringing, modest means and education. I treat everyone the same - with respect! I can kick it with shorts and flip flops or clean up if necessary. It's just clothes really. No big deal."One's life consists not in the abundance of the things which he/she possesses" Luke 12:15 But enough of me already. How does one fully describe him/herself in a mere paragraph or two without sounding horribly formal, contrived and corny. Quite frankly I would rather be lounging at the neighborhood cafe, and coming up with ideas for the next fun adventure, while sipping tea solo, with friends, or with you perhaps? Shoot me a message. Ask me whats my favorite cuisine? Or where I went for vacation summer?

Sign

Leo

My Body Type Is

A Few Extra Pounds

My Height Is

6' 1 (1.85 m)

My Eyes Are

Black

My Ethnicity Is

African American, Asian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

Yes

My Hair Is

Black

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Art / Music / Literature

My Job Title Is

Graphic Designer/Videographer

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Cool Dude

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Friendly, Comedic

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Religion / Spirituality, Family, Dining, Photography, Arts & Crafts, Music, Movies, Internet, Travel, Gardening

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, The Movies, Relaxing, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Sitting at an outdoor cafe preferably with a view of a river/lake/beach and enjoying breakfast or a beverage and conversation.

I've Always Wanted To Try

horseback riding but kind of scared.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, Goofy, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

find my soulmate, grown my family, build a life together, and open up a business on an island.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Slapstick

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Reality Shows

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Electronic, Pop, I'm A Recording Artist, Jazz, Latin, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel, Punk

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Health, Home & Garden, Humor, Instructional, Music, Nature, Political, Religious, Science, Science Fiction

My Idea Of Fun Is

I enjoy eating with friends. Having friends over for dinner and conversation. Playing soccer. Playing a musical instrument and deejaying and performing live.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

WHAT I WANT (long version):
Here are some keywords and phrases that sum up qualities I appreciate. Fun personality, caring/nurturing, thoughtful, smart, passionate about life, articulate, humble, laid back, funny, kind, comfortable, confident but not conceited, intelligent, spiritual, warm, not superficial, and perhaps most important of all - you must love music and be comfortable around creative artist-types. I have the Caribbean in my heritage, so if you like white sand beaches that stretch for miles, a Caribbean island vacation, could be in your future.

American culture tends to be super hung up on age. I am not concerned about it, age is just a number. My parents happily married, are 25 years apart in age. That has been my norm, my reality all my life. What has proven to be more important is this: You can be "young" with an old soul, or you can be "old" and young at heart. Either way works for me. Boils down to those 4 questions at the top. If you can answer YES, then let's have a conversation.

About that music thing - Music is my passion. If you don't like music much or appreciate those who are involved in music, it's not going to be a fun ride. It takes a certain temperament to understand artists. It's like we're on a whole other plane. Oh and one more thing. Be prepared to post on this site if you haven't already, a full length photo of you wearing your favorite pair of jeans or you can email it to me.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Marriage